I’m in Colorado. Per capita we are a huge hot-spot in the United States for the pandemic now sweeping through the world. All too soon I’m sure we will be on isolation protocols, it’s part of an inevitable domino effect, and I for one will be prepared, at least mentally. This is NOT the time for fear, I’ve done plenty of that in my past and it has no appeal, use, or leverage in my life anymore. I have skills in place learned and practiced through my program of recovery that deal with such threats very efficiently; namely the “Serenity Prayer” which is really just a re-affirmation we can only control ourselves. The way we choose to act and react is the ONLY power we can exercise discipline over. Outside circumstances are not only beyond our control, they are are, for the most part, unpredictable as well.
My suggestion to others is this, sit down and write out everything you’ve been putting off, be it tedious, fun, or necessary, and create a schedule to start working towards what you want to purge, create, or improve upon. Lack of purpose is extremely efficient fertilizer for all kinds of unwanted outcomes. Trust me, I speak from experience. Keep an emphasis on scheduling. Write out what you are going to do, what time to get up, what you want to accomplish first, by noon, and by the end of what would be considered a “normal” work day. Stay at home parents will no doubt have the easiest time adjusting to how the world is shifting, but the rest of us will be left with giant gaps in our daily habit.
Who hasn’t thought about getting back to long neglected hobbies and pastimes? Many have dusty crafts, unread books, half finished drawings and paintings (me, me me!), and partially written manuscripts and poetry. There are those with cars waiting to be worked on in their garages, work shops with plenty of supplies, and gardens to start soon. Boredom is fueled by an inability to do what we think we’ll enjoy while at the same time convincing ourselves what needs attention requires too much effort. I call B.S. on this attitude. Excuses hold us back more than any other thing on Earth, and I’m not beyond manufacturing all kinds of seemingly creative ones myself. Do it all the time, which makes me something of a hypocrite. In any case, I’m much better at following through on my duties, hobbies, and dreams than I used to be, so at least my track record is constantly improving.
I’ll gladly share my intentions and hopefully my example will inspire others to follow a similar path.
Productive things to do in my life –
- Exercise daily every morning in place of work. (while watching recorded shows)
- Clean the grill. (we use it three to four times a week)
- Clean and organize the garage. (THIS should take a while)
- Clean and organize my storage room in the basement. (this should take even MORE of a while)
- Separate what I need to donate. (WAY WAY too much, kind of a clothes whore)
- Do classes from “The Great Courses”, both new ones I want to buy and those I already own. (math skills, language skills, writing skills, science, Shakespeare, etc.)
- Complete online classes offered by my work. (there’s a bunch, and it will endure my willingness to be committed to my job as well as educate me on necessary work place skills)
- Download my giant audio library of self-help, self-improvement programs to my iPod. (this is time consuming but it pays off.)
- Organize and clean my work van and tools. (not bad now, can always be better)
Fun things to do in my life –
- Write on my blog. (there’s never a lack of inspiration, and sometimes what guides me, surprises me as well)
- Work on my art, both painting and pen and ink. (several projects I’ve been neglecting for far too long)
- Watch my collected movies and series. (Battlestar Galactica, Sons of Anarchy, Northern Exposure and a plethora of others, twelve hundred titles in all, so no lack of entertainment here)
- Complete my book and send it off for publication. (THIS is a big one. Not completing this equals massive regret, something I refuse to cultivate)
- Listen to music. (Pandora – nothing calms me like Steely Dan, Firefall, Neil Diamond, and Gordon Lightfoot)
- Sit down and read. (I own several thousand books so no lack here either)
I plan to keep getting up at four a.m. every day just as I do now.
- 4:00 – 4:30 – Shower
- 4:30 – 5:00 – Eat Breakfast
- 5:00 – 6:00 – Exercise
- 6:00 – 8:00 – Pick something on my “to do” list. Doesn’t have to get done, just progressed.
- 8:00 – 11:00 – Education choice
- 11:00 – 12:00 – Lunch
- 12:00 – 2:00 – Write
- 2:00 – 4:00 – Work on my art
The rest of the day will be the same as it is now which includes time with my wife, dinner, and confidently giving a bunch of wrong answers to the night’s episode of Jeopardy! Chores like laundry can happen whenever because I can do other things while the machine does the work. I’m usually in bed by nine p.m.
One of the biggest reasons I MUST do this is if I don’t, old habits will attempt to resurface, and I have a host of those which almost destroyed me. One of the recent ones is weight loss. I’ve dropped about a hundred pounds since March of last year, and I’m prone to eating all the wrong crap when I let fear and stress dominate my mind, so keeping focused on a daily pattern will help deter me from self-destructive tendencies.
I have no intention of telling others what to do, all I want is to share how I’m going to handle what’s coming for all of us.
I wish you all the best.
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With Love and compassion, Daniel Andrew Lockwood